Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Aku suka dengar dan layan lagu XPDC, mainly sebab vokal Mael yang sengau2 sedap tu dan juga sebab vokal Ali yang mantap. Suara lelaki sejati. Tak macam Beckham. Nampak ganas maen bola,ada tattoo, tapi suara...
Ok. Cukup pasal X.P.D.C. Aku cakap pasal X.P.D.C sebab nak buat mukaddimah pasal cerita cinta.Entah macam mana dulu aku aku boleh minat baca novel2 cinta (darjah 4-6, lepas kena sunat). Apalagi zaman tu yang meletop novelis dia Ahadiat Akashah, kalau tak silap aku. Semakin menginjak dewasa, aku dah tak layan novel cinta, kerana aku dah terjebak dengan benda lain. Benda lain ini tak perlulah untuk aku ungkapkan dekat sini. Mau sampai subuh gamaknya untuk aku coretkan.
Dulu aku ada pi satu kedai buku dekat KLCC, nama dia apantah,Kinokinuya rasanya, dengan beberapa rakan lelaki. ( Kinokuniya was originally a lumber and charcoal dealer in Yotsuya; and after the Great Kanto Earthquake of 1923, the business was moved westward to a new location in Shinjuku where it was re-fashioned into a book store.,, source : Wikipedia). Aku perasan yang si member aku ni dah ambek satu buku dari Relationship and Family section .Ape kejadahnya. Selalu yang aku tau dia ni selalu baca buku pasal bola, bola, dan perempuan je.Owh, aku terlupa. Time tu aku still belajar kat univ dan kena buat topik pasal kekeluargaan. Seriusly aku dah tak boleh ingat sapa tulih buku tu tapi kitorang dapat buat kesimpulan yang penting dari buku tu. Oleh sebab assignment kena submit in English, itu pasal kami kena cari buku omputih. Kesian orang putih yang kulit tan. Tak bole panggil depa omputih la. Orang u-Tan kut lagi sedap.
The author is a guy .Dia points out that the way men love differs from how women love. Women love someone with a lot of mushiness, soupiness and sentimalism. When a woman loves a man, she will take care of her loved ones in every possible way that she can. When her man is sick, she will be there for him, prepare warm chicken soup for him and feed him, rub his back and hold his hands, make sure he takes medicine, stay next to him in case he needs her to do something to make him feel better, in short tend to him attentively until her loved one is fit and healthy again. Even if her man hurts her deeply with his actions or words, she (I mean, if she really loves this man) will always forgive and will still be willing to sacrifice anything for him. That's how a woman loves.
So, aku cuba ungkap balik apa yang mamat penulis buku tu tulis dalam buku dia tu. Ada ayat yang aku cilok bubuh dalam phrase di bawah jugak. Haha. Credit to him.
Yet, for a man, their methods of loving a woman is much more simple and less complicated. They don't tend to show off their affection and care the way us women do. And how a man loves is based on 3Ps which are Profess, Provide and Protect.
Let begin with Profess, if a man loves a woman, he would be proud to tell everyone that she is his woman. He may not always display his affections, but when a friend asks him 'Who is she?', he will proudly hold her hands and his answer will always stay the same 'Oh, this is my girl, bro!' or else similar macam tu.
If a man loves a woman, the real man will always try to Provide her with anything that she needs be it materials or supports. He will always be aware of his responsibilities towards his woman and work hard to fulfill them. And it will be his pleasure to do so.
Protect, when a man loves a woman, he may not stay by the bed when she is sick or rub her feet when she is exhausted from walking long distance in high-heeled shoes, but he will do anything, go through everything before he let anything or anyone hurts or harms his woman. That's what you can expect from a man when he loves a woman.
So kakak-kakak semua,ah moi,chikas2 and awek-awek d luar sana, bila korang punya pakwe, laki, does all these 3Ps, stop complaining that he's not being romantic and stuff like that, because men do love differently from women. When your man does all these 3Ps, you can be sure that you're with someone who really loves you. That much you can believe.Ok, aku ulang balik na, penulis buku tu adalah lelaki. Cheers !
p/s : Happy birthday ,cik Sorfina!